Wednesday, January 7, 2015
Falling For Your Best Friend ? I Can Help!
Hello lovelies! How are you guys ? I hope you're all great! This weeks blog is going to be about falling in love with your guy or girl best friend. I don't just want to single out the girls or guys because both genders go through this. With that being said, lets get started! Having a best friend is the best thing in the world and anyone can agree with that. You have someone who is a true friend and you can tell anything to them and do anything with them. They're like the brother or sister you've never had or always wanted. However, it could be a tough time if you start to develop feelings for them. After this happens, it could either go downhill or uphill. I don't mean to sound discouraging but, I don't sugar coat anything. The first thing you to do whether you want to or not is sit him or her down somewhere and tell them exactly how you feel! I know it can be scary or hard but, if you don't get those feelings out and tell them, your feelings for them will only grow stronger and it could cause to get very heart broken and I wouldn't want that for any of you guys! Now, when you go to tell them that you have feelings for them, you also need to tell them that they don't need to feel the same way back but, they need to respect your feelings for them and not play with them. After you express your feelings to your best friend, there's going to be 3 answers from them, its either going to be an "Okay I respect your feelings.", a "I don't feel the same way.", or a "I feel the same way. If they feel the same way great! If they don't feel the same way, you just need to say okay and move on. You don't need to chase them or anything because you can't make them have the same feelings for you. Just know that you got your feelings out and hopefully it made you feel a little better and if it went it the wrong direction, I hope you can stay strong and learn to move on and find someone who shares the same feelings you have. Like I said before, I'm sorry if this was a little harsh and discoursing but, I didn't want to tell you a lie because I like being straight up with people. Don't take this the wrong way but, I would rather you guys be hurt with the truth instead of comforted with a lie. Well, I hope you guys enjoyed this weeks blog and can relate. I'm always here for you guys if you ever need to talk or anything. I hope you all enjoy the rest of your night. Love you guys! Byeeeee! : )
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